Episode 36: Healing in Marriage with Chris & Natalie Stefanick
In this bonus episode in our series on Healing in Marriage, Jake and Dr. Bob are joined by Chris & Natalie Stefanick. Ten years into their marriage, the recognition of childhood abuse launched them into a challenging season of healing that ultimately demonstrates the power of God’s love, the grace of the sacrament of marriage and hope that healing from deep wounds is not only possible, but part of God’s desire for our restoration.
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Show Notes
Guiding Quote
“They will be called oaks of righteousness, a planting of the Lord for the display of his splendor.” - Isaiah 61:3
Key Points
Ten years into their marriage, recognition of childhood abuse launched the Stefanicks into a challenging season of healing
One spouse’s healing journey unearthed wounds in the other and both needed to find healing together as a married couple
Sometimes abuse isn’t identified as abuse until later in life
Calling out the lies of the enemy and navigating feelings that ‘I wish you’d be fixed so that I’d be okay’
The image of an oak tree in its strength, providing safety for others to heal
The blessings in their marriage and family after working through the pain
Practical Application
If you’re struggling with the pain of sexual abuse, counseling can be a great help
What lies do you need to pray against in your marriage?
Pray to recognize how your spouse has been healing for you and how you can be healing for your spouse
Resources
The Stefanick’s Ministry: Real Life Catholic
Caravaggio’s painting of Doubting Thomas
Healing the Wounds of Sexual Abuse, Elaine Heath (book)
